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This is a question that a lot of people ask when considering therapy, especially in our current state, and it’s a good one. What can therapy actually fix when there are so many systems that are broken, so many atrocities occurring that we don’t know which way to look, and talking about things aren’t going to change any of that?

Let’s Be Clear About What Therapy WILL NOT FIX

There are many things that therapy will not fix, and anyone telling you otherwise is doing you a disservice. Below, along with many other things, are examples of what seeing a therapist one hour a week will not fix. Hell, no amount of time in therapy will actually fix these things.

• Poverty
• Racism
• Sexism
• Ableism
• Ageism
• Homophobia
• Economic Exploitation
• Chronic Injustice
• Chronic Pain or Illness

“But.. Those Things Don’t Affect You Every Day”

If we lived in an ideal world, these major systems, beliefs, and struggles wouldn’t exist, our struggles would feel much more manageable, and existential dread would be all but unexperienced.. because none of our problems would be long-term. I hate to hear the phrase that money can’t buy happiness, because I know for a fact that 90%(+) of my clients’ problems would be solved by a consistent income that offered a livable wage. Being fed, housed, clothed, medically cared for, and able to afford experiences does make your life much easier and enjoyable. I simply won’t entertain someone attempting to prove otherwise.

The part of this that applies to us, though, is that we do not live in an ideal world. We live in a world where these experiences have been normalized. People are told that a lot of these issues aren’t even really happening. How much of a mind-fuck is that? Therapy can’t make these experiences disappear, but it can at least begin with affirming they are happening- and have a much bigger influence in your day to day life than most give credit to.

There is a mental and emotional load that is taken one when fighting against systems that were not built for you to survive, let alone succeed within. How much time a day are you spending thinking the following?

• What am I doing wrong?
• Why is this so difficult?
• I swear, I get one step ahead and then I’m two steps back.
• People don’t see what it took to get to where I am today.
• Why have I gotten further than anyone in my family, yet I still feel behind?
• When I succeed, it still doesn’t feel good enough.
• If only my disability was visible, then people wouldn’t think I’m lazy.
• Every time I speak up for my needs, I’m viewed as angry or selfish.
• Why are micro-aggressions brushed off and ignored by my peers?
• Why does it need to affect someone personally for them to care?
• I want to embrace my culture more, but it’s not worth losing my safety.
• I need to be the best so that I don’t misrepresent my minority.
• I’ve been taught to resent parts of my heritage, and that doesn’t feel good.
• I am not safe until I am home with my door locked behind me.
• I shouldn’t speak up, I am finally in a management position.
• My day doesn’t end when I clock out, I then care for my elderly parent.
• I work over full-time hours and am still called lazy when I take assistance.

I could keep going with examples, but we would get to a novel sized blog entry. If you don’t experience any of these thoughts, I’m happy for you and the peace you are able to tap into- it’s called privilege.

Therapy Doesn’t Fix the World, But It Changes How You Live in It

Therapy isn’t about pretending things are okay when they aren’t. It’s not about toxic positivity or “just thinking differently” in the face of very real harm. Good therapy actually makes space for anger, grief, fear, and exhaustion, because those responses make sense.

What therapy can do is help you stay grounded in yourself while everything around you feels unstable. It helps you:

• Process the constant influx of overwhelming information
• Understand your emotional responses instead of being consumed by them
• Build resilience without numbing out
• Stay connected to your values when systems feel chaotic or unjust

You may not be able to control the larger forces at play, but therapy helps you reclaim agency over your internal world. There’s a common fear that focusing on your mental health is a form of disengagement. That if you’re not constantly activated, you’re not paying attention, but being in a constant state of distress doesn’t make you more effective, it burns you out!

Therapy teaches nervous system regulation, not so you can ignore what’s happening, but so you can sustain your engagement. So you can show up, advocate, care, and resist without collapsing under the weight of it all. Rest, boundaries, and emotional processing are not distractions from the work, they are what make the work possible.

Grief Needs Somewhere to Go

There is so much to grieve right now. Loss of safety. Loss of trust. Loss of what we thought the future would look like. When grief has nowhere to land, it can turn into numbness, anxiety, or hopelessness. Therapy offers a place to put that grief down and actually feel it without being overwhelmed or alone. When grief is witnessed, it shifts- not making it okay, but into something more livable.

Even in the middle of uncertainty (even in the middle of systemic harm), you still deserve moments of joy, connection, and meaning. Therapy helps you hold both truths at once: The world is hurting AND your life still matters. It supports you in building relationships, finding purpose, and creating small pockets of safety and authenticity.

Therapy as a Form of Resistance

Taking care of yourself in a world that benefits from your burnout is not selfish, but radical. Choosing to understand yourself instead of abandoning yourself is powerful. Learning to set boundaries, to feel your emotions, to unlearn harmful narratives, is deeply transformative.

Therapy doesn’t replace collective action or systemic change, but it strengthens your capacity to participate in those things in that feels energizing or fulfilling, rather than hopelessly. The world may be overwhelming and a lot may be outside your control, but you don’t have to carry that weight by yourself. Therapy is maybe the only place where you get to be human in the middle of it all: messy, emotional, uncertain, and still worthy of care. That means something!